Advice for single men needing nudist women

by Rich Pasco

I often read on the internet (and sometimes hear in person) pleas from single men who desperately want a woman to accompany them to nudist resorts. I usually advise them that it's easier to find nudist women at nudist resorts than on the internet. In this article I'd like to elaborate on that with some points of my philosophy:

• If you go to a nudist resort in order to meet women, you will be disappointed. There aren't all that many there, and depending on how hard you work at it while you're there, you might also find yourself invited to not return.
• If you try to meet a woman in order to go to a nudist resort, you will be disappointed. A woman wants to be valued as a human being, as your friend and as your loving partner, not as a body to be used as a ticket of admission somewhere.

• If you go to a nudist resort for its own sake, just to swim and sunbathe and play without clothing, then you will find that joy and playfulness and friendship is available to you. Some of the women you meet may become your friends and lovers.
• If you are self-confident and happy and friendly and open and not needy or desperately lonely, then you will find women are attracted to you in all walks of life, including nudist settings as elsewhere.
• If your self-confidence extends to openly portraying your naturist lifestyle as a wholesome and healthy recreational choice, then some of the women you befriend in non-naturist settings will be open to visiting your naturist resorts with you.

Reprinted from:
South Bay Naturist News, Vol. 8, No. 9: September 15, 1996, p.8
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